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"A family residing in north London wants to find an extraordinary and qualified educator to guide their smallest child on his initial journey to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this advertisement, you might naturally skip the wording "initial stages" as just figurative language.

Yet, it may be the crucial aspect of this unique employment listing, as it aims to find a teacher for a 12-month-old.

Many of responses have already been sent in since the anonymous family posted their search for the highly paid tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the listing has attracted notice across the news, with many asking why?

Innovative Idea

Adam Caller, CEO and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is helping the family in their search, stated that despite first scepticism, he considered the idea "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he consulted the family, he mentioned they appreciated the unusual character of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

However, they explained that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had held off until their elder sibling was five, and by that age "cultural bias had already become established".

What exactly does the family mean by "cultural leaning"?

It's "all-encompassing", the expert replied. "The way you eat, how you speak".

He said the older sibling had adopted "really subtle, unspoken signals" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family explained to Adam they wished to avoid this pattern to repeat itself with their infant.

The intention: To hire a English tutor, who must speak with RP, to guide the baby from day one.

Subtle Influence

"Much of the development at the start here is somewhat absorbed naturally," stated the CEO.

It's by means of this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will pick up the English characteristics they wish to instil.

Adam explained the tutor needed to be somebody who went to "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator must be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they don't even know they're doing, simply by nature," he added.

Cost Not Relevant

The family explained to him the selected educator should preferably also have understanding of or enthusiasm in riding, alpine skiing, creative fields and music so as to influence the child in a broad spectrum of hobbies.

Additionally though, he said the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a selection of lessons so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's minds, helping their son grow into a "British gentleman" will lead to accomplishment and create opportunities.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a class statement," he adds.

But, in spite of all this guidance in "English culture", might the child adopt so-called cultural bias from the international family he resides with anyway?

"Yes", answered he. "They understand this may not work, but they've just taken the perspective of, 'we should try and we should start as quickly as we can', because the cost of it is not relevant," he stated.

Overly Optimistic

There are some in the private teaching field who share those doubts.

An education leader, chief executive of Blue Education, who also offer private tutors, commented that "the journey of adopting dual cultures, or actually, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not engineered."

Peter wrote that he had emigrated from Asia to the Britain at the time of seven, and had been raised understanding and practicing dual heritages. He continued to study at the University of Cambridge.

"The notion that a single person can function as a representation of English culture, someone who can somehow impart the characteristics of a UK sophisticate to a infant child, appears idealistic and unfeasible," he stated.

"In my experience, having a typically English tutor from infancy will does not automatically produce the goal they desire.

"I did not have such a tutor, and nevertheless I have been fortunate enough to enjoy numerous of the experiences they hope for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, cultural identity can not be dictated from the outside influences; it must be selected, and it must be internally driven."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, UK identity is something the expert hopes can be educated – and sold.

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